Nurture your relationships
without the overwhelm
Tendr uses a beautiful garden metaphor and gentle reminders to help you stay connected with the people who matter most. Built for ADHD minds—supportive, never judgmental.
Life gets busy.
Relationships fade.
You're not alone.
You lose track of time
Days turn into weeks. "I'll text them tomorrow" becomes "Has it really been two months?"
What do I even say?
Crafting the perfect message takes energy you don't have. So you don't send anything at all.
The guilt compounds
The longer you wait, the harder it gets. Until reaching out feels impossible.
Your relationships, visualized
Watch relationships bloom
Each person is a flower in your garden. Water them with messages, calls, and time together.
Never overwhelming
Smart notifications that respect your time, energy, and focus. No guilt, just gentle nudges.
Built for your brain
Visual progress, micro-commitments, and positive reinforcement. No shame, ever.
Your data stays yours
Everything lives on your device. No tracking, no selling, no compromises.
Simple. Supportive. Effective.
Add Your People
Import from your contacts or add manually. Each person becomes a flower in your garden.
Set Your Rhythm
Choose how often you want to connect. Daily, weekly, monthly—whatever feels right.
Get Gentle Nudges
Receive kind reminders when it's time to reach out. Quick actions make it effortless to respond.
Watch Them Bloom
Celebrate growth with beautiful animations. Your garden flourishes as connections deepen.
Your social life, at a glance
See which relationships are thriving and which need attention. No spreadsheets, no guilt—just a beautiful, calming view of your connections.
- Multiple garden themes (Spring Blossom, Desert Succulents, Tropical Oasis, and more)
- Flowers grow through stages: seed → sprout → bud → bloom
- Gentle wilting when relationships need care (but they always recover!)
Reminders that respect your brain
Built for ADHD minds. Our notifications are supportive, not demanding. They work around your schedule and never make you feel bad.
- Context-aware timing (never during work hours or sleep)
- Customizable quiet hours and daily limits
- Gentle language: "When you're ready" not "You must"
- One-tap actions to respond instantly
Lower the barrier to connect
The hardest part is starting. We make it effortless with pre-written messages, quick call buttons, and smart conversation starters.
- Pre-written message templates
- AI-suggested openers (optional, on-device)
- Direct links to Messages, Phone, FaceTime
- Log interactions with a single tap
Your relationships are sacred
We never see your messages, contacts, or interactions. Everything stays on your device, encrypted and private.
- Local-first data storage
- No message content collection
- No contact data sharing
- Optional cloud sync (encrypted end-to-end)
- Export your data anytime
Celebrate every small win
ADHD brains thrive on positive feedback. Unlock achievements, earn collectibles, and celebrate consistency—without the pressure.
- No punishment for missing days
- Collectible garden decorations
- Weekly progress celebrations
- Streak recovery (no guilt!)
12 stunning garden themes
Spring Blossom
Desert Succulents
Tropical Oasis
Winter Wonderland
Autumn Harvest
Moonlit Garden
Cherry Grove
Coral Reef
Crystal Cave
Volcanic Garden
Sky Citrus
Ancient Forest
Loved by thousands nurturing
their relationships
"As someone with ADHD, Tendr has been life-changing. I finally have a system that works WITH my brain instead of against it. My friends have noticed I'm more present."
"The garden metaphor is genius. It turns relationship maintenance from an overwhelming chore into something beautiful and meditative."
"I used to feel so much guilt about forgetting to text people back. Tendr's gentle reminders have eliminated that completely."
"Beautiful design, thoughtful features, and actually helps me stay connected. Rare trifecta!"
"The one-tap message templates are perfect for when I'm overwhelmed but still want to reach out."
Watch: How Tendr helped me rebuild my social life
Start free. Unlock more when ready.
Free Forever
Perfect for getting started
- ✓ 3 Free Themes
- ✓ Up to 3 contacts
- ✓ Up to 100 interactions per month
- ✓ Basic analytics (3 months history)
- ✓ iOS system integrations
Tendr Plus
For deeper connections
- ✓ Everything in Free, plus:
- ✓ Unlimited contacts
- ✓ Unlimited interactions
- ✓ All premium themes (12+)
- ✓ Advanced analytics & insights
- ✓ Cloud backup & sync
- ✓ Custom reminder settings
- ✓ Data export (CSV/JSON)
- ✓ Priority customer support
- ✓ iOS system integrations
Cancel anytime. No commitment.
Can I upgrade later?
Absolutely! Upgrade anytime and keep all your progress.
Will you ever add ads?
Never. We're committed to an ad-free, respectful experience.
What about my data?
Your data stays on your device. We never sell or share it.
Student discount?
Yes! Email us for 50% off Plus with valid student ID.
Refund policy?
30-day money-back guarantee, no questions asked.
Can I try Plus first?
Yes! Start with a 14-day free trial. Cancel anytime.
Designed with neurodiversity in mind
Every feature is intentionally crafted to work with—not against—ADHD brain patterns.
See your progress instantly
External visual cues help with time perception and motivation.
Just one small action
Break down overwhelm into tiny, achievable steps.
Celebrate wins, not misses
Reward systems without punishment or guilt.
Work with your rhythm
Adapt to your energy levels and focus patterns.
Minimal cognitive load
Information when you need it, peaceful silence when you don't.
Judgment-free zone
Missed a reminder? Your flowers are ready when you are.
Traditional apps vs. Tendr
| Feature | Traditional CRMs | Basic Reminders | Tendr |
|---|---|---|---|
| Visual progress | ❌ Lists only | ❌ None | ✅ Beautiful garden |
| ADHD-optimized | ❌ Complex | ❌ Basic | ✅ Purpose-built |
| Gentle reminders | ❌ Aggressive | ⚠️ Generic | ✅ Supportive tone |
| Privacy-first | ❌ Data collection | ⚠️ Cloud-required | ✅ Local-first |
| No guilt/shame | ❌ Streak punishment | ⚠️ No context | ✅ Always recoverable |
| Beautiful design | ❌ Utilitarian | ❌ System default | ✅ Glassmorphism |
| Context awareness | ❌ None | ❌ None | ✅ Location + time |
| Cost | 💰 $$$$/year | Free but limited | ✅ Free forever |
Your relationships deserve
better than forgotten reminders
Join thousands nurturing meaningful connections with Tendr.
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